xavier1979 SG I've often heard (or read) of guys who use the word "dear" when referring to female platonic friends [color=blue](not girlfriend)[/color]. To me, I think the word "dear" is *special* and should be reserved for my gerger only. I tend to use the word "girl" instead. What are your views? How do you refer to your platonic friends?
deathwish SG Originally posted by xavier1979: I've often heard (or read) of guys who use the word "[b]dear" when referring to female platonic friends [color=blue](not girlfriend)[/color]. To me, I think the word "dear" is *special* and should be reserved for my gerger only. I tend to use the word "girl" instead. What are your views? How do you refer to your platonic friends? [/b]I agree with ya Xavier Frens call by their names lor
Estee SG Originally posted by xavier1979: I've often heard (or read) of guys who use the word "[b]dear" when referring to female platonic friends [color=blue](not girlfriend)[/color]. To me, I think the word "dear" is *special* and should be reserved for my gerger only. I tend to use the word "girl" instead. What are your views? How do you refer to your platonic friends? [/b]Oops, just realise this questions is directed to guys right?? Anyway, if the dear is meant to be a joke...........then it's fine..........hehe i only call frens by name or uncle auntie mama whatever rubbish.........but not those darling dear stuff lah......
zacken99 SG yoz... i dun c addressing normal ger friend as dear is too much? i address any ger i noe as dear.. its juis another friendly gesture... nver noe ppl here so conservative.............
shirurinu SG Yah.... can't really get the dear out of my mouth to somebody i dun have chemistry for... to me... *DEAR* is Special... heavenly hahahaha
zacken99 SG walao dear oni wat dear here dear there wat so difficult? i oni hv problem with darling n lao po...............
Ah^ken SG To some, it might seems rather sensitive but to others it might seem quite casual as a form of addressing each other as in close friends...
joshuapoh SG if calling girls call girls dear its ok mah... tat type or ang mo pai... if guy call guy dear then something is wrong... we all living in 2002 liao coming 2003, calling dear to frendz its ok lah.. just don call too many times or follow by a hug n hopefully follow by a *muackz* then its too much..
Parka SG Maybe everyone can try calling their friend dearor darling the next time you see them. Then see what their reaction would be like. Maybe the first word that comes out would either be "huh?" or "You siao ah?".
Devil1976 SG Originally posted by Parka: Maybe everyone can try calling their friend [b]dearor darling the next time you see them. Then see what their reaction would be like. Maybe the first word that comes out would either be "huh?" or "You siao ah?".[/b]Nope... I always call people "My dear xxx...." Even if we're just friends...?
BufPuf SG reminds me of last time when me secondary school stead/bf/gf...this kind call lao gong lao po 1.. aiyo..